TopDawg14 Posted April 9, 2007 Report Share Posted April 9, 2007 Will and Jada have a sexy good time Fantasy life fuels romance for celebrity couple April 8, 2007 BY LAURA BERMAN Jada Pinkett Smith says her hubby's fantasies about other women rock her world. She's not jealous. She's not spiteful. In fact, she encourages him to get smooching onscreen with more women. In the latest issue of Tango Magazine, Jada opens up about the Smiths' extramarital crushes. She says first Will had a thing for Salma Hayek and more recently, was crushing on Beyonce. (He must be sooo happy about that Sports Illustrated cover!) Jada herself admits to a bygone crush on The Rock. Is this a sign they're bored? That their marriage is in trouble? Actually, it's quite the contrary. Couples with the healthiest relationships can share an active fantasy life, while taking solace in the fact that neither would ever stray. One allows for the other. You see, it's the couples with bad boundaries and no sense of trust who either, A) cheat or B) pretend like no other human ever registers on their only-human sexual radar. These are generally the couples who are all over each other in the beginning, have to proclaim their love to the world incessantly, are never apart and then live through WWIII when the they break up, oh, usually about two years later ... because one or both of them cheated! Will and Jada show us that it's not healthy to stifle your fantasies and if you can explore them with your partner, all the better. Because the fact is, we all have attractions and fantasies involving people other than our significant other. Hormones, pheromones and the senses don't stop functioning once you've committed yourself to marriage. Studies have found that fantasies are part of a healthy sex life -- and the absence of fantasies is a sign that there may be a problem. So Jada and Will are stoking their sex life with each other, by sharing their crushes on others. Their openness and honesty is good for their relationship. And the disclosure likely adds some edge and uncertainty to their monogamous relationship. Keeping that spark alive takes work; they have found one way to do it. Also interesting is the fact that Will's fantasies are voluptuous and round, in sharp contrast to Jada's chiseled, rock-hard body. Like many people, Will seems to fantasize about what he doesn't have. So Jada and Will, thanks for bringing back the spirit of fantasy! It's the spark of individuality that keeps the passion alive in all great relationships. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
3cookies Posted April 9, 2007 Report Share Posted April 9, 2007 haha... thats really cute, in a sense, but I would be scared to lose my husband to one of those vuloupsous (however its spelled lol) fantasies onscreen.. whateva rocks their boats is all what counts tho... ... xoxo, cookie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VIsqo Posted April 9, 2007 Report Share Posted April 9, 2007 This is a great article. Me and my girlfriend do the same thing. I have a fantasy with jessica alba and she loves tom criuse, and we know that and we are happy like that and trust each other even more now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonny 5 Posted April 9, 2007 Report Share Posted April 9, 2007 yeah I can deffo relate to that to a certain extent! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sherry Posted August 13, 2007 Report Share Posted August 13, 2007 Will and Jada have a sexy good time Fantasy life fuels romance for celebrity couple April 8, 2007 BY LAURA BERMAN Jada Pinkett Smith says her hubby's fantasies about other women rock her world. She's not jealous. She's not spiteful. In fact, she encourages him to get smooching onscreen with more women. In the latest issue of Tango Magazine, Jada opens up about the Smiths' extramarital crushes. She says first Will had a thing for Salma Hayek and more recently, was crushing on Beyonce. (He must be sooo happy about that Sports Illustrated cover!) Jada herself admits to a bygone crush on The Rock. Is this a sign they're bored? That their marriage is in trouble? Actually, it's quite the contrary. Couples with the healthiest relationships can share an active fantasy life, while taking solace in the fact that neither would ever stray. One allows for the other. You see, it's the couples with bad boundaries and no sense of trust who either, A) cheat or B) pretend like no other human ever registers on their only-human sexual radar. These are generally the couples who are all over each other in the beginning, have to proclaim their love to the world incessantly, are never apart and then live through WWIII when the they break up, oh, usually about two years later ... because one or both of them cheated! Will and Jada show us that it's not healthy to stifle your fantasies and if you can explore them with your partner, all the better. Because the fact is, we all have attractions and fantasies involving people other than our significant other. Hormones, pheromones and the senses don't stop functioning once you've committed yourself to marriage. Studies have found that fantasies are part of a healthy sex life -- and the absence of fantasies is a sign that there may be a problem. So Jada and Will are stoking their sex life with each other, by sharing their crushes on others. Their openness and honesty is good for their relationship. And the disclosure likely adds some edge and uncertainty to their monogamous relationship. Keeping that spark alive takes work; they have found one way to do it. Also interesting is the fact that Will's fantasies are voluptuous and round, in sharp contrast to Jada's chiseled, rock-hard body. Like many people, Will seems to fantasize about what he doesn't have. So Jada and Will, thanks for bringing back the spirit of fantasy! It's the spark of individuality that keeps the passion alive in all great relationships. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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