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    Friend or Foe?

    A couple of things happened recently that made me want to post this topic, for food for thought. We all have people in our corner who we may consider friends, but are they really ur friend? What is the definition of a friend? what are the actions of a true friend? I would like to see what some of u guys have to say about friends and friendships, and how we should go about sutiations when we disagree, u feel 'violated'.. do u let it go? or do u step up like a REAL friend, and correct them? so what if they get pissed? do u care, if ur speaking from ur heart? something that may correct their wrong behaviour in the wrong tyming? A good friend of myne told me this morning that his buddy was in Hollywood or N. Hollywood over this past weekend and got shot down DEAD. Shot in the face by some stranger for no apparent reason. This is a very real reason to understand why its important to show genuine value we place on our friendhships. Hypothetically... imagine if that person was YOUR friend who got shot and killed. What was the last impression that you left in his or her mind if you gave them your word on something, and you failed to follow through because of your very own lack of consideration? and the next thing that you discover, is that person was killed... How would you feel? honestly? Your deepest sympathy could not even penetrate into their soul, but you left them with the last memory of broken promises... All I'm saying is. friendships are honorable. to be cherished, and treated with respect ... all else does not go unnoticed... it just builds against your very own conscious, if something tragic would to ever happen... Be a true friend if claim to be someone's friend. Don't front, or pull out the friendship card for ur own convenience... I lost a friend in Germany to suicide, and I can never forgive myself for getting angry because he was burning himself with a cigarette, and asking me to sing a song for him just one tyme... he committed suicide that night. .and i was not there for him... real friends are hard to come by...but in tyme, we come to realize who truly gets that honor of being called our friend. thats real. xo, cookie
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    PRAYER AND SUPPORT CIRCLE

    ditto to what AJ said. Its always sad to hear of an untimely death especially when its a student in college or some level of study working on their future... just so sad... xo, cookie
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    On the Boards lol

    oh ok then.. lotsa dudes on JJFP site uses that.. I think i remember Vipa saying he uses it for some of his joints. Matta fact, I love Vipa's remixes! lol yea, u can really get creative with muzik, different sounds etc. The best thing about working on beats is enjoying urself so much ,before u know it... you can be in the studio for 10 hours strait without even realizing how much time has flown by huh? Expecially if ur with someone as creative as u are, and ur just strait vybing of each others energy. THATS whats up. lol Do u work alone or with others? cool xo, cookie
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    Where are you people?!

    hahahah.... im sorry Luigie.. u know how i am.. I'm still working on it lil bro.. but its like, pretend he and I was on the phone talking and giving him some slsterly advice. .Id say all of that without taking a breath, LMBO!!! so at least.. im still breathing this way. LOL hehe.. Aj used to tell me to slow down typing when we were chatting on AOL so he can catch up reading . LOLOL xo, cookie
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    On the Boards lol

    wow. thats good Luigie for just messing around with the keyboard. Whats the "FL" default sound? and what music production software are u using? If you have editing software where u have more freedom with ur creativity, adding plugins via Reason for example... you will really be suprised with all that u can do by messing around. May even come up with a hit if u keep at it ... haha xo, cookie
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    Friend or Foe?

    @Fresh Prince Charming... you are 100% right. When they dont show any hope, or interest in helping themselves from a self destructing 'decline' in life, all it will do is drain your energy and we just cant help everyone, who don't show appreciation for what ur trying to do. Letting go can be so hard, but until they are ready to stand up on their own and take initiative in bettering themselves, theres nothing you can do. Saddest thing there, is letting them go... @Typhoon... im a softie too. Specially with my friends. Don't ever stop caring, thats what draws ppl to wonderful friend like yourself. Goodbyes are the worse when its untimely, or unexpected as it always seems. Life is a cycle that sometimes seem faster than others, but tho friends always come and go, and we have to work to suffice and met our financial obligations, you must make sure to add that balance or you will suffer from depression and it will only hang a cloud over the most beautiful days ahead in ur life. You are a gem. Dedicating and volunteering time to those children like that, is actually a very unique and attractiveness that the right woman will take notice of. You are adding 'balance' without even knowing, by putting your energy in the right place for a lonely heart as urself. To add even more balance, you already have mentioned coming up with a new plan to relocate that happiness, and attract those meaningful friendships, so the thought is the beginning of your new "start" Don't be too hard on urself, but even if you have to look into a job that is less strenuous on ur time, it will free up more time so that you can get out more and enjoy connecting with new friends. Be urself, smile and strike up conversations. You never know where that one conversation could lead to a lifetime friendship, or maybe even a long term relationship. Take a bold step, be in charge and do whatever you must in making sure you dont allow the next 20 years come and go, and depression, working all the tyme, and lonliness are ur best companions. I know em all too well... xo, cookie
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    Lil wayne- Lollipop video..

    LOL... Lambert is still around after all that? oh boy... lol Hiiii Lambert.... xo, cookie
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    Mother Nature in Wisconsin Is a Jerk

    LOL its crazy everywhere right now I think. Same here, I can finally work out again after my car accident and im all hitting the outside basketball courts & tracks at my son's school,... then it gets cold on my taiL. .. too cold 4 me boiii! LOL I just can't DO it! lol I HATE cold weather. xo, cookie
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    What Are You Listening To? XVII

    Raheem Devaughn~ Customer xo, cookie
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    Where are you people?!

    NO baby, you can't do that. If there is a problem, and you don't sit down and talk about it... dont you think that will create a larger gap in distance and communication between u two? but thats the key. You dont always have to argue, raise ur voice or get angry every time u fight. If u really love her, give her a little tyme. This is how I would handle it. First put urself in the 'mindset' of when u fell mad & deeply in love. The mere thought of her made u smile, and ur heart just melt and drip of amor. Then. Let her know that before you go further in this 'distance/time apart' thingy, you would like to make positive amends, or at least try to release it with love and high respect 4 one another. You stil havent given much detail, but its all cool. Its a private matter of the heart and u dont wanna put ur business out there like that. but... go backwards in time first. dont think about the problems. Take her back to ur first day meeting. Remind her of that magical eye contact that drew u in2 one another... the first kiss...how u melted when she smiled at u.. etc etc. and what was it like when ur feelings were just growing stronger and stronger, u couldnt go without hearing her voice... awww.. Now. after u get her in the right 'mindset' of remembering how u both were and still capable of being deeply in love.. let her know that all these arguments in the world wont ever change that. EVER. if she wants to argue. (be gentle) I would just smile, and soften ur voice to say as tenderly as u can to her.. "baby not right now. please." Hold her, and give her a a really MEANINGFUL and tender kiss somewhere on her face... side of her nose, her eye, wherever ur heart leads u to the kiss.. trust me. she will be receptiive.. and if she still wants to argue. just let her get it out. u have to NOT argue with her. No matter WHAT she says, u have to remind urself, that (if u say she is right)... SHE is right, and u gotta get the poison out of that wound, in order for it to heal. Cry with her. Just dont raise ur voice. Listen to her with ur heart and not your EGO getting in the way of allowing ur heart to soften to her 'wound'. sometimes we act out in anger, instead of expressing it as pain.. but everybody doesnt know how to verbalize what exactly it is we are feeling when ur in an awkward position. When two ppl are from such different backgrounds, we can run into the most uncomfortable communication barriers, ... we freeze up, and don't free ourselves up to show just who we really are, or even express what we really feel... We say the opposite of what we feel, and act in ways tha seem uncaring ,but is that REALLY the case? Why do we project just the opposite to someone we care for? Why do we do things that hurt the ONE person we love? Why? Sometimes ,its not THEM its us. we have to work on our very own selves. Think about something awful u ever said to her to make her angry. or even jab her in the heart. imagine looking deep into her eyes, and nothing but tears rolling down, all because you said something to the one you LOVE, or something you didnt say... is that how you show ur love to the only special person in ur life? if she cries. holds her head down, do u smash her felings worse? or do u realize,.. oh my God. this is the woman that you have brought into my life... and that I love, look at what am i doing to her. to us. whatever you do, don't ever act as if nothing ever happened, or go without admitting your wrong. Thats morally wrong, and shows no integrity of a real man, or woman. If ur not aware, and she brings it to ur attention. LISTEN to her, and weight it out to determine if you need to correct something, or offer a simple.. oh baby im sorry, i didnt even know I did that.. or i didnt even notice my behaviour, can u forgive me please? etc etc... Its not a matter of what you two have fought over, or who was wrong or who was right. Its more likely what was NOT said. She may have insecurities, or u may have insecurities that was never talked about. You have to creatively & tactfully tap into Unspoken words, cause it can be the key to resolve some issues. Remember u have to be friends. Talk, dont be afraid to open up. When we show that vulnerable side to our partners, we welcome them deeper into our hearts & soul in sharing and caring in a real way, not just for the sake of 'empty words'. Also, its all about forgiving, and sometimes humbling urself and admitting if u were wrong. ALWAYS say I'm sorry and ask for forgiveness. After the forgiveness, is when we can move forward and keep building. But we have to work at reviving that loving feeling, saying heart touching things. Fighting, tearing one another down, and even not expressing urself in communicating, will always sabatoge its growth, and give ur love/relationship an untimely death.. why? you're giving up in essence. Don't ever give up, if its a MUTUAL connection of love at one point... One sided love doesnt work, but it doesnt sound like this is the issue here... i know i ramble.. but love is something else. lol Im scared of it tho. touch, taste, see, smell, ... all my senses say run the hell away. LOL j/k. dont mind me. xo, cookie
  11. awwww... look a there. He is so adorable...I think he is going to be a great actor, because its in his blood, and HE wants to do it, not the parents pushing him. My youngest son wants to act too. I'm not the best coach like Will & Jada are to Willow & Jaden.. but well... we'll see... lol.... xo, cookie
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    What Are You Listening To? XVII

    CHASING FOREAVER ~ WILL SMITH :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :birthday: :respect: :Party_fest09: :thumbsup: LOL xo, cookie
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    more comedy movies

    yea.. the last MIIB was not all that to me neither. Its not Will's fault tho lol. He was just the actor, not the script writer.. or waaaaaaas he??? .. hummmm :hm: :wait: ... LOL. j.kidding.. xo, cookie
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    Friend or Foe?

    thru the good and the bad. i agree Tim, and I dont think Will could have said it any better than he did in Potnas... consider urself very fortunate Kev. Everyone isnt as lucky as u are to have those type of friends in their corners. The most important aspect of friends and like Tim said in realizing how valuable we are to one another, is through ACTIONS. Our behaviour in their presence or key communication with ideas, problems or just keeping each other lifted up in life period. Its not a forced thing or you feeling as if you are constantly inconveniencing someone with offering ur friendship. If their schedule is truly that buzy, to make proper time, what does this tell u on the value they place on YOU as a friend? Is that a happy or painful thought? Actions speak a volume in altitude over simple words or promises we verbalize,... The intention may be there, tho If they tell u they will do something and don't acknowledge you as SOMEBODY when they cant, no phone call, what does that tell you about the true person? Some behaviours are inexcusable when it comes to respect, rudeness or common courtesy that we often overlook, but it should rather be addressed if the friendship is to sustain intolerable behaviours. or say funk it. To determine who value YOU as their true friend... just look for signs of INTEGRITY. If they show u none ,... what are they telling u in essence? People talk the talk, but do they walk the walk? Think about it now. We often judge a book by its cover, but whats really up is whats on the INSIDE of that cover. Their heart. Their intentions. Their word is their bond.. or not that is the question... We do have select friends that have strong holds on their words being their 'bond' ... and for others,. You must determine carefully, if they fit into that special category in your heart that you cherish as a true friend. Its deep. Everybody, regardless of how much high regard u place on them as a person... have 2 be properly 'studied' before you give them a piece of ur heart as a friend... My friends gets my heart and support. I cant give that up to just anyone... just some thoughts.. sorry if i repeated anything. . xo, cookie
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    Friend or Foe?

    thx 4 that. now that dude needed to be called out... Its when we remain 'silent' is when we do 'disservice' to our friends, because some walk for so long in their own blinding lights, they don't recognize their faults as being 'wrong' until they're are properly put in check. as u did with ur friend is a good example of one of many examples.. How did that interfere with ur life tho? thats what I dont understand.. xo, cookie
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    Where are you people?!

    wel lalright then. imma get some rest 2nyte, and ready to see how this goes 2morrow. lol. I can hardly wait, because its always these different perspectives that gets activity going in those inactive parts of the human brain ... lol good mental conditioning for when love goes bad, ... that usually leave us mentally incapable for a short while,,,.. sometimes longer.. I just hope it works out for the best. .. in the meantyme sometimes love sux rotton eggs . lol eugh... thas nasty. lol xo, cookie
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    Where are you people?!

    lmbo. and what exactly would u say to her mister? :stickpoke: hummm?? ! xo, cookie
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    What Are You Listening To? XVII

    Usher ft. Young Jeezy. Make love in this cluB...
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    Where are you people?!

    Its sad it turned out this way, but dont give up just yet tho stank. Theres always a chance if u both were feeling each other, that it can work out.. its just a simple lack of communication somewhere. Thats all. Be real tho... It didn't just happen out of 'nowhere'... it obviously has built up, and from the sounds of it... from the problems u guys were having.. the info u gave is too little for anyone to help u much.. If ur willing to talk about it,... what were the base of problems u were having? Jealousy? Not albe to spend quality tyme 2gether? One person giving more than the other?Is one of you more interested than the other..... or trying too hard when the other obviously just don't care? Were u intentionally ignoring signs that one or the other is not there mentally? Do u have healthy debates or discussions, acknowledging the other's views, but not discrediting yours, regardless of who is right or wrong? How long have u guys been going out, did u say? U can ask AJ.. i love talking about love. LOL so imma be here for another hour then curl up in my office to a good stimulating book .. :sipread: xo, cookie
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    more comedy movies

    hey there. .welcome 2 the board. a handful of fans dont care to see a sequel to BB1 & BB2, or MIIIB,... but I wouldn't mind it... lol. IM a fan of action and comedy movies and with Will in an action/comedy mixture,.. I would definitely be there to support it. So, I guess im like you, I do want to see more movies in general, and muzik. Whatever his little heart feels like working on and bringing to us,... im down for it. lol. xo, cookie
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    Hancock song leaked!

    LMBO!!!! xo, cookie
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    Where are you people?!

    awww... u broke up with ur gf? what happened? U can always keep in touch with ur best friend tho, so its not like he is out of ur lyfe 4eva. Overlook Tiger is just being a frosted flake... lol. When folks be flakin on ya, I imagine they mean no harm...just dont think small things they say or do can hurt another without knowing whats going on in ur life. Hes good ppl tho. right tiger? so wassup wit u and ur girL? Maybe we can help... Thats crazy. I can help every dang body in the world except my self. LOL xo, cookie
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    Where are you people?!

    lol.. i was here earlier ,and left a note on the Shoutout thread, but I thought it may have been a lil bit much, so i deleted it. hah. you sound bored, or missing ur JJFP fam? aww. lol xo, cookie
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    This has seriously made my week!

    Congrats, and sorry to hear about the broken hand Brakes.. ur a sport, ur gonna be aiight tho lil bro. lol just cant spank ur girl with that hand now. LOL jk xo, cookie
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    YO! MTV RAPS IS BACK!

    ...and we shall see my dear.. xo, cookie
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