Romano, in that first pic you posted, I really think thats the one, if you remember that episode where Will and Carlton have a pool party, and then Uncle Phil takes them to court, that pool is in the exact position. And the trees are spot on just like the intros to the scenes of episodes where they show the house through some leaves.
It's good to hear that not only Will was having problems with her. I think Janet really exagerrates her story. She just was never able to get over that she had been replaced. To be frank, Daphne did as good a job as her, she was great, and she was loved by the cast.
Glad Carlton n Will still hang with eachother, their families, play golf and meet up during Christmas time. Thats really awesome to hear.
Just Say Yo: (Will accepts pills (speed), which Carlton mistakes for vitamin C)
Papa's Got A Brand New Excuse: (Will's father episode)
Bullets over Bel-Air (Will gets shot, then Carlton gets himself a gun for safety)
Although these 3 are very, very hard to pick from because they are all extremely emotionally powerful, I'll have to go with I, Done (Part 2). The final FPOBA episode, man, I cry every time Will says "Im definately gonna miss this place" and then shuts the light off. :(