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Luigie

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  1. FL means Fruity Loops and i just used the default sounds that are in the program, hehe..i use also Cool Edit Pro, thnx for replyin, at first i felt dumb cause i was like "i dont even know the music notes..how the hell im gonna use a keyboard??" lol..but there it is...at least u can feel hip-hop in those beats :-P

  2. I've been experimentin with keyboard stuff instead of samplin songs for beats, tell me what u think (i use the FL default sounds, lol) i feel proud about this step..cause i never thought i could create a melody wit the keys, lol feedback aprecciated :)

    Beatz :)

  3. NO baby, you can't do that. If there is a problem, and you don't sit down and talk about it... dont you think that will create a larger gap in distance and communication between u two? but thats the key. You dont always have to argue, raise ur voice or get angry every time u fight.

    If u really love her, give her a little tyme. This is how I would handle it. First put urself in the 'mindset' of when u fell mad & deeply in love. The mere thought of her made u smile, and ur heart just melt and drip of amor. Then. Let her know that before you go further in this 'distance/time apart' thingy, you would like to make positive amends, or at least try to release it with love and high respect 4 one another.

    You stil havent given much detail, but its all cool. Its a private matter of the heart and u dont wanna put ur business out there like that. but... go backwards in time first. dont think about the problems. Take her back to ur first day meeting. Remind her of that magical eye contact that drew u in2 one another... the first kiss...how u melted when she smiled at u.. etc etc. and what was it like when ur feelings were just growing stronger and stronger, u couldnt go without hearing her voice... awww..

    Now. after u get her in the right 'mindset' of remembering how u both were and still capable of being deeply in love.. let her know that all these arguments in the world wont ever change that. EVER. if she wants to argue. (be gentle) I would just smile, and soften ur voice to say as tenderly as u can to her.. "baby not right now. please."

    Hold her, and give her a a really MEANINGFUL and tender kiss somewhere on her face... side of her nose, her eye, wherever ur heart leads u to the kiss..

    trust me. she will be receptiive.. and if she still wants to argue. just let her get it out. u have to NOT argue with her. No matter WHAT she says, u have to remind urself, that (if u say she is right)... SHE is right, and u gotta get the poison out of that wound, in order for it to heal. Cry with her. Just dont raise ur voice. Listen to her with ur heart and not your EGO getting in the way of allowing ur heart to soften to her 'wound'. sometimes we act out in anger, instead of expressing it as pain.. but everybody doesnt know how to verbalize what exactly it is we are feeling when ur in an awkward position. When two ppl are from such different backgrounds, we can run into the most uncomfortable communication barriers, ... we freeze up, and don't free ourselves up to show just who we really are, or even express what we really feel... We say the opposite of what we feel, and act in ways tha seem uncaring ,but is that REALLY the case? Why do we project just the opposite to someone we care for? Why do we do things that hurt the ONE person we love? Why? Sometimes ,its not THEM its us. we have to work on our very own selves.

    Think about something awful u ever said to her to make her angry. or even jab her in the heart. imagine looking deep into her eyes, and nothing but tears rolling down, all because you said something to the one you LOVE, or something you didnt say... is that how you show ur love to the only special person in ur life? if she cries. holds her head down, do u smash her felings worse? or do u realize,.. oh my God. this is the woman that you have brought into my life... and that I love, look at what am i doing to her. to us.

    whatever you do, don't ever act as if nothing ever happened, or go without admitting your wrong. Thats morally wrong, and shows no integrity of a real man, or woman. If ur not aware, and she brings it to ur attention. LISTEN to her, and weight it out to determine if you need to correct something, or offer a simple.. oh baby im sorry, i didnt even know I did that.. or i didnt even notice my behaviour, can u forgive me please? etc etc...

    Its not a matter of what you two have fought over, or who was wrong or who was right. Its more likely what was NOT said. She may have insecurities, or u may have insecurities that was never talked about. You have to creatively & tactfully tap into Unspoken words, cause it can be the key to resolve some issues. Remember u have to be friends. Talk, dont be afraid to open up. When we show that vulnerable side to our partners, we welcome them deeper into our hearts & soul in sharing and caring in a real way, not just for the sake of 'empty words'. Also, its all about forgiving, and sometimes humbling urself and admitting if u were wrong. ALWAYS say I'm sorry and ask for forgiveness. After the forgiveness, is when we can move forward and keep building. But we have to work at reviving that loving feeling, saying heart touching things. Fighting, tearing one another down, and even not expressing urself in communicating, will always sabatoge its growth, and give ur love/relationship an untimely death.. why? you're giving up in essence. Don't ever give up, if its a MUTUAL connection of love at one point... One sided love doesnt work, but it doesnt sound like this is the issue here...

    i know i ramble.. but love is something else. lol

    Im scared of it tho. touch, taste, see, smell, ... all my senses say run the hell away. LOL

    j/k. dont mind me. :thumbsup:

    xo,

    cookie

    i was missin the long ass posts lol

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