Well being a girl and all, I'll tell you what I like. I like when I go out with a guy and can feel comfortable with him. Personally, I don't like asking ALL the questions so I like when the guy tries to get to know me. And as for the music...it actually is pretty important. If we're in the car and he just has loud music on, it feels like he's more into the music. I hate riding in the car and the music is on and then everytime you talk, he turns the music down. Keep the music light, but there.
Corny pickup lines don't really impress me either. Just say nice things every once in a while. A sense of humor is ALWAYS a good thing. If a guy can make me laugh, then it just makes the overall mood sooo much better. Other than that, I just like when everything is kept nice and easy and like there's no pressure to go anywhere. Just have fun.